Monday, 1 May 2017

#Lightenup! "People are SO serious lately on social media"-Kourtney kardashian


If you keep catching your significant order cheating, maybe you need to change your attitude. Next time, why not grab a bag of popcorn or chips, a bottle of coke, relax backward on the sofa, cross your legs and Lighten up. 

Lol! I don't know about the 72nd chance though.

Beautiful Former Miss Charismatic Nigeria Dies


23-year-old beautiful Mololuwa Yewande Baruwa, who was a top model and former Miss Charismatic Nigeria 2013 who was a final year Public Administration student died in the late hours of Friday, April 29th after suffering a brief illness.

May her Soul rest in peace and may God also grant her family the fortitude to bear such a loss.

If it were in my hands I'd say no one should have their dreams and life cut short at such a young age.

Female Child Trafficker Exposed By 2-Weeks-Old Baby's Wails


A woman known as Gift from Gokana, River state was arrested by the Police in Aba, Abia State, after she could not explain how she came into possession of the two-weeks-old baby she was traveling with at Uratta Junction, along Enugu-Port Harcourt Expressway.

The policemen were alerted by the incessant cries of the baby, thereby propelling them to confront Gift, who on interrogation confessed that she was not the biological mother of the baby, but that one MR. Ntue, from Gokana, handed over the baby to her for upkeep.

According to Vanguard, Abia state Commissioner of Police, Mr. Leye Oyebade said the suspect connived with the said Ntue, now at large, and stole the baby from her biological mother. He warned nursing mothers to be conscious about the security of their babies

Oyebade disclosed that the baby has been handed over to a motherless babies' home in Aba for care, while efforts are ongoing to reunite her with her biological mother.

He added that police have launched efforts to apprehend the fleeing accomplice, Ntue and urged members of the public not to hesitate to volunteer useful information that may lead to his arrest.

Culled from Vanguard

Nigerian Female Wrestlers Bags The Highest Number Of Medals In Morocco


In the just concluded 2017 Senior African Wrestling championships in Marrakech, Morocco, Nigerian female wrestlers came out as the overall champions, winning six gold and two silver, making it a total of eight medals.

The gold medalist are Mercy Genesus 48kg , Odunayo Adekuoroye 55kg, Aminat Adeniyi 58kg, Blessing Oborudud 63kg, Kemeasuodei Dressman 69kg and Gofit Winnie 75kg.

The silver medalists are Bose Samuel 53kg and Bisola Makanjuola 60kg.

 Daniel Igali, the president of  Nigeria Wrestling Federation said that the result by Winniw the 75kg gold medalist had been rated as the "Fantastic result overal."

This one na girl power in action, Congrats to all Nigerian participant's, wrestling no be small children sport.

"Marriage is the greatest achievement of most Nigerian women"- Says facebook user Tina Michelle Obiora


Tina Michelle Obiora, a Facebook user and a vibrant defender of Gender equality on her page wrote that the only thing majority of Nigerian women are aspiring for in life is 'Marriage' and both her male and female followers concurred to that.

Read her write-up below;

Marriage is like the greatest achievement of most Nigerian Women, that's the only thing majority of them are aspiring for in life.

The Mrs tag is like eternal life to some of them.
Why don't you get productive? Be useful to your society?

...and if marriage comes? Embrace it!

Do not marry all because you want to answer Mrs.

Tina is absolutely right! It seems like the number one priority of a good majority of Nigerian females is to land a husband, whichever means possible. You see young women wasting their 20's scheming to get a man to marry them as if marriage equates success. 
This is the reason why most women will rather die in a DV ridden marriage than leave it. When all their life achievement is a marriage and they don't have any sort of identity outside that marriage, they will do everything possible and impossible to hold on to it. 
It's high time Nigerian women set's their priorities straight. 
Be brave enough to make a name for yourself instead of striving to attach yourself to a man's hustle. Marriage should not be the ultimate goal in your life.
Read my post on "How single Nigerian girls can manage the pressure to get married here

Georgina Onuoha, Toyin Abraham extends their birthday wishes to Comedian Helen Paul


Actresses Georgina Onuoha and Toyin Abraham both took to their Social Media pages to extend their love to Comedian Helen Paul whose birthday is today.


Georgina worte; 

Happy birthday gorgeous Queen.
You are beautiful, brilliant, witty and a clown. Thanks for making us happy. As you add yet another beautiful year to your amazing life.. May all you wish for come true. Have fun @itshelenpaul 👑💕💝

While Toyin Abraham wrote;

We may not be sisters by birth,
But somewhere deep within me
I feel I've known you forever.
You're my true sister, FOREVER.
You're my angelic sister
Held close to my heart,
We were friends by God's choice,
But sisters by our own.
Your so pure,
Your so true,
Your so beautiful,
You're my true sister forever.
Happy birthday to a Friend turned sister @itshelenpaul 

Happy Birthday Helen Paul

Dilemma: Girl asks how she can induce her boyfriend to rape her.


Yes, you read it right. Apparently the girl in question is asking for tips and tricks she would use to bring out the wild side in her man, so he can mishandle her. 

Read her Dilemma below;

 I want to be raped by my boyfriend how do I tell him? We live together I'm 24 & he's 34. He is too sweet, doesn't drink smoke lie or cheat. 2 years together and He still makes breakfast & dinner, comes home with flowers a bottle of wine and chocolates tied in ribbons and cries during sex. Now i don't want to sound ungrateful because I'm not, I love him more than red wine and only God knows how big of a love that is in my world, but He's too perfect to the point it's scary. I have tried to piss him off multiple times just to see his bad side but he doesn't reveal it and instead of finding comfort in that it only scares me more. He never shouts or gets angry. He never gives me a chance to pay for my actions or to the least punish me into thinking there's a chance I might lose him. He just easily says he loves me then forgives me like nothing happened. as of late I have had a strange crave for him that turns me on. I fantasize his hands around my neck and forced sex after a heated argument, even though he's never carried one. I really want him to rape me (when I least expect it or want it) just this once so I can see a different side of him that will relieve me. How do I tell him this? And as for my fellow ladies, have you ever encountered such a man? Do they really have a bad side? How do you get it out of him? (Except for cheating). 

From Break or Makeup.

Anyone have a good advice to give her?

Women Christian group NCCM urge the FG to end sectarian killing


On Sunday, in a bid to end the incessant sectarian killings especially in Southern Kaduna, Kaduna State, the National Confraternity of Christian Mothers, NCCM yesterday urged the Federal Government to immediately find a solution to the sectarian killings. 

The women Christian group said government must ensure the safety of all Nigerians irrespective of religion or tribes adding that Nigerians must draw closer to God to heal the land of all the problems tormenting it.

The President of NCCM Lady Marcella Colen who spoke at the investiture of Patron and Patriness, first National Merit Award and launching of the N600 million female hostel at the Catholic owned Veritas University, Abuja said that Nigerians must be safe, and free to live and practice whatever religion or faith without any fear.

She made it known that Christian women all over the Country are worried about the killings taking place in the Northern part and asked for fervent prayers.

Culled from Leardership

Britney Spears gets Icon Award at Radio Disney Music Awards.


The Radio Disney Music Awards, now in its fifth year falls somewhere between the Kid's choice Award and the MTV Video Music Awards.
The Award which took place at the Microsoft Theater in Los Angeles on Saturday night (April 29), Honored Pop Star Britney Spears as an Icon.This is the first-ever Icon Award at the RDMAs.
Britney's younger sister Jamie Lynn surprised her onstage by presenting the inaugural Award to her.
"What a pleasant surprise, my goodness," Spears gasped as fans excitedly chanted her name. "This is such an honor. I want to thank Radio Disney so much for giving me their first ever Icon Award....your support throughout my career has meant so much to me, all my fans, as always, you are the freakin' best." She then thanked her children. "My two loves of my life, my sons Jaden and Preston you're the reason my heart beats. I love you so much."

Happy New Month and May day


Hi my 9jagirlfriends, wishing you all a blessed and fulfilling new month. May we not be weary in our pursuits of whatever that brings happiness and peace to our mind this month. 

To all the workers out there happy May day. Make una enjoy una holidays. I hear say today go dey cloudy, so make all of una knack better sleep and cuddle nicely with you better half.  Enjoy the day because by tomorrow the drudgery starts.

Newlywed Indian women issued Wooden bats to tackle Domestic Violence


In the central state of Madhya Pradesh, India,  newlywed women are being given state-issued wooden bats to drive away drunk or abusive husbands, amid nationwide efforts to crackdown on alcohol-linked violence against women.

The bats were given by a minister, Gopal Bhargava to nearly 700 women who participated in a government-organized mass wedding on Saturday.

According to Agence France-Presse reports, the minister has reportedly ordered about 10,000 more paddles to hand out to future brides.The specially made bars, measuring nealy one foot long and traditionally used to beat dirt out of lundry, bear message such as "for beating drunkards" and "police won't intervene," 

However, the minister advised the brides to first try to reason with their husbands but to "let the wooden paddles do the talking if words" fail.

"Women say whenever their husbands get drunk they become violent. Their savings are taken away and splurged on liquor." Bhargava told AFP. "There is no intent to provoke women or instigate them to violence but the bat is to prevent violence."

No be to give them bats, na to teach them how to use it well. Because no be person wey carry weapon dey always win fight. God forbid that we hear in the future that one drunken husband has battered his wife with the bat they gave her as a wedding present.